Topic #554
Do you take yourself too seriously when it comes to your writing?
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Absolutely, I do. The same thought for other writers, too! I take my and their responsibility as contributors to the artform. This is based on how much it means to me. How others feel is evident to me, in the way they talk about their works. Neither of us come to the work lightly. And, I most certainly hope that my work and their work will be here long after we are gone. There’s no point, to me, to publish otherwise. It certainly doesn’t make us rich!
The whole reason I became a writer was that I fell in love with books and the authors who made them. I dreamt of sitting among them since I was a girl. Some folks might feel that’s arrogant–believing who are you to think you belong in such a space. What I have to say to them is: I’m a writer. Their space IS my space. Yes, I haughtily take a seat here. They’re who I want to be around, be like, and share community with. That’s why I call myself a writer. That’s who I think I am, because writing is what I do. Why wouldn’t other writers feel this same way?
Do artists not see themselves in community with other artists? Is that presumptive of them? What about filmmakers? Historians, architects, mathematicians? There are those who came before who inspired us, who we wish to find ourselves among. I’m pretty sure astronauts dream of being among other astronauts. Is it arrogance or alignment? Is there some prize for refusing to call yourself by writer and doing writerly things? There is not.
Now, will everyone remember my name? That, my friends is not what I aim for. I much prefer that readers remember my books, even if they struggle with thinking of the titles, which would be poetic, because I struggle to remember names, too! But seriously–may the stories impress upon them, leaving beautiful daydreams and thoughts. May it scare the hell out of them where appropriate. May it make them feel.
Isn’t that why we write? If I am not here to share my words with others, what am I even doing? I’ve always been confused by the folks saying, I do it for me. Groovy. Very good. So why did you put it in print, though? That wasn’t a necessary step if you did it for yourself. You can literally just get a single copy to put on your shelf. Outside of that, you felt the need to share if you print it. Publishing is sharing. That is why it is done. We really need to get on board with that, and stop letting others call us arrogant for thinking someone might want to read the things we have to say. Aren’t those people sharing their meals on Facebook? Why do they think anyone wants to hear their words? They’re not exempt from the question.
When that question comes up, push it back on the asker. There is literally nothing wrong with being a literature lover. Books are fantastic things. Humanity creating them is incredible. I don’t see porpoises or beavers writing books. Look at humans creating all these things! We should be proud. We should presume that others want to hear the words. Aren’t we looking to not only beautify our world but make connection?
Maybe those people just want to keep us all disconnected. They don’t want you articulating yourself out into the world and finding connection with others or, forbid, creating something on which others find connection with still more others. Community makes them itch, if they can’t control it. And, just maybe, they are more invested in your suffering in silence and building walls because they are just absolutely cruel individuals on the inside. Ugly behavior is for real. As I mentioned in my previous entry, folks will work against you because they have ugly feelings about you.
It may be elitism, arrogance, ignorance, misery, dislike, or even hate that drives others to mock a writer’s desire to create and publish. Despite them, do your writing. If you are moved to share it with the world, share it with the world. There’s something in that. Someone out there needs to see your words, and you sense it. Nothing wrong with that. Nothing arrogant in that. It’s the desire for connection and understanding. Embrace it. It is a beautiful human thing.
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