♦Welcome to another edition of the Open Book Blog Hop!♦
Topic #185
What is your writing Kryptonite?
Welcome back to another edition of the Open Book Blog Hop! If you’re new to the series, the authors included are grateful for your reads and appreciate, even more so, when you share our writings with your friends. If you’re new to the series, welcome aboard. The authors engage and impress weekly. Be prepared to become a regular reader.
When I read the question, the song immediately popped into my head. I couldn’t think of another thing. And the irony of that is the band who plays it, and the intertext with my work: 3 Doors Down. Once my series is completed, the books will be clothed in art that depicts three very important doors. Those doors come from recurring dreams I have had since I was a kid. (Sorry, but you’ll have to read the books to understand why they’re so awesome.)
That oh so familiar guitar line at the outset… the drums that come in like a marching cadence…
What really has been the bane of my writing career are the gatekeepers. They’re these people who you have to engage in order to get access to resources, readers, or revenue. For some reason, they are hell bent on stopping writers from getting past the gate of which they have placed themselves in charge. This could be an agent, publicist, advertiser, publisher, other authors, social media, and so on.
Being courteous is something that I was just about born with. I always approach others humbly. Yet, for some reason, I’m often treated as a nuisance or worse by those I have to work with in my writing career, who have the keys to next steps. I cannot, for the life of me, figure out why that is. There is the obvious ‘burned-out’ attitude excuse, but I don’t feel satisfied with that, and I will tell you why. I’ve seen other authors do exactly the same things as me, say the same things, and be treated far more respectfully.
This makes moving forward on a project that much harder. There’s a sense of being ostracized from your own artform, being dismissed and disrespected despite one’s credentials. It is a major drag on the juice I need to keep producing my art. My anxiety takes over and I start thinking more about what I have done wrong, what I could do better, or even why do I bother, instead of focusing on creating. It’s a really hard thing to redirect away from.
When I first started out, this didn’t stop me from writing, but it very nearly did. I approach my art differently now—probably, with a more sullen demeanor of f— em if they don’t like it. The counter to it all has come with the growth of the independent market and availability of independent publishing. Not only can I now say f— em if they don’t like it, but I can manifest the soul of that independence by doing the work without those people.
I’ve learned to find my own editors, designers, and artists. It’s hard paying that all up front when you’re not sure what the return will be on the other end. The point, though, is getting your work out despite the gatekeepers. Do not allow them to stop you. In many cases, their attitudes and actions are rendered arbitrarily, as I have found. So take their feedback and sidebars with a grain of salt, unless there’s something they say that backs up something you were thinking to begin with, or the feedback you got was specifically sought and fulfills your needs.
The truth is, agents and publishers, big house editors and so on, we don’t need them anymore. We can do the work without them by utilizing the great resources in the independent industry. It’s our art, and they shouldn’t redesign it to suit market whims. Certainly we need to be cognizant of what is hot and what is dead on arrival, but in the end, art dictates itself. As creatives, we shouldn’t be subject to gatekeepers. They don’t serve us or the consumers of our works. They instead try to starve both.
Take a look at the lyrics of Kryptonite to see the link to what I’m saying. Then, check out the links to other author answers below…

Agents almost stopped me before I’d begun. Apparently, my novel Ribbonworld is “lacking in literary merit.” Fortunately, I listened to my readers and self-published it. More than 3000 downloads and a 4.4 review rating suggests that someone likes it.
I’ve gone through very much the same. It’s so great to see your comment and your success. Power to the authors! I’m so glad we have the opportunity to bypass them now.
Elites set themselves up all through society and so there are doorkeepers wherever you look – people who feel we must ask permission to make use of our creative talents are only one set. And it’s total nonsense. It doesn’t make the world even one bit better.
Amen, Lela. Amen!
I’m so glad I’m an indie and can tell my stories the way they want to be told, not the way some editor thinks they should be told.
Yes! It’s so empowering. Writing is art and it needs to be created according to its author. Certainly we can seek guidance and are smart to do so, but not pushing the parameters of what is accepted is killing the artform. Shakespeare would be slammed as an know-nothing in today’s writing world, and that is frightening.
At the end of the day, publishing books is no longer about writing and stories, it is about money. The gatekeepers make a judgement based on what they think will sell quickest and bring their shareholders the greatest return. I worked out a while back that the people who get paid the most and the careers that bring monetary success, are those which make rich people richer. Awesome and thought provoking post.
Thank you. You are 100% correct. If they can’t think of you as a money-maker, they won’t go for your book. It doesn’t even matter if it is well-written or not. Your best bet is to pitch it like a marketing team at a A+ agency. That’s probably one of the hardest things for a writer to learn how to do. The author brain doesn’t work like that. If you can, you’re well on the road to popularity.
A London agency once kept me waiting for a whole week while they decided whether or not to represent me after I’d sent them ‘Mind Games’. The waiting was terrible and all for nothing. I soon stopped bothering with them!
Only a week? I’ve waited months. It didn’t turn out any better. 🙂 The waiting is the worst.